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Rise in emotional economy: China ‘love-brained’ youth seek strangers’ scolding for guidance

People obsessed with love pay for tongue-lashing from self-styled influencers; some consider growing trend a form of ‘public humiliation’

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Young people in China, labelled “love-brained” on social media, seek live-streams and influencers for “scolding” to gain visibility and guidance, reflecting a rise in the country’s emotional economy. Photo: SCMP composite/Shutterstock
Zoey Zhang

On a popular social media live-stream a young girl pours her heart out to a stranger.

She is highly educated, comes from a wealthy family, but has fallen head over heels for a man 10 years her senior who is poor and does not love her.

The live-streaming influencer, Taozai, responds not with sympathy, but with something far more jarring:

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“Not only do you have a ‘love brain’, you also subconsciously discriminate against people with lower education and the poor. You discriminate against others, and others will not love you. This is karma; you deserve it.”

To others, this may seem like public humiliation, but for many young people who have self-diagnosed as being “love-brained” in China, it is an emotional release.

The look of love: A man and woman take part in a dating show in China. Photo: Weibo
The look of love: A man and woman take part in a dating show in China. Photo: Weibo

The bizarre ritual is quickly spreading across the internet, with thousands flocking to live-streams, paid courses and influencers who offer “scolding” services.

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